unsolicited advice

Saturday, September 7, 2013

hi there.  i hate unsolicited advice.  don't you?  i'm about to give you some though because i think it's that legit, so great that you must know.

are you married?  are you in a serious relationship?  if you answered yes to either of these questions, there is something you need to invest in, you must invest in, it will change your life and better your relationship.  want to know what it is? check it after the jump.....

yep, a massage table.  i bought this for mark before we were even married.  we used it once a week and traded off massages, it was the best thing ever and actually still is the best thing ever.  we don't use it as often now, i would say about twice a month.  i try to give mark a massage after he has a crazy business trip with long plane rides and nights slept in hotel beds.  it's a nice way to say i missed you and i appreciate everything you do for us.  it's also surprisingly, not a pain in the ass to give a massage, it's actually awesome.  i won't go so far as to say that i would rather give a massage than get one, but they are pretty close. i also pretty much always end up on the receiving end of a massage in the few days after i give him one.

a lot of people think this is BIZARRE. we bought a few of our friends massage tables for anniversaries, weddings, etc. and they looked at us like we were crazy and it went unused.  i don't pretend to hold any secrets to marriage and mark and i certainly have our shortcomings but i swear by this massage table.  taking an hour or even thirty minutes to just focus on your sig other in such a sweet and loving way like a legit massage on an actual massage table, is pretty awesome.  it's something we will always take the time to do and we always feel way more connected after a nice massage table sesh.  it's hard to maintain a balance between husband/wife and mom/dad but this is a quick way to get right back into that romantic relationship way of mind, because this did all start with a romantic relationship and there is no reason why we shouldn't try to keep it that way.

and guess what....they aren't expensive AT ALL. Check out a few options below.

option number one

option number two

really those are all the options you need.  we have had both brands and i really feel that both are totally legit.


  1. That's brilliant! When Christian and I play Qwirkle, we often play for a 15 minute massage. We both have a lot of aches and pains, so it's awesome to win. I'm definitely telling him about this.

  2. Oh my gosh. This is brilliant. My husband's birthday is coming up and this would be perfect!

    1. Yippee Melanie! My husband is the hardest person in the world to buy for, but he LOVED this gift!

  3. This is perfect! my husband loves to get massages. I will be wife of the year! HA! Thanks